I feel so excited for Martin and Erin! Really congrats! Not easy to come by, and they are indeed blessed with good luck to be approved to be together. :) :) :)

Gor must gambatte! Go and ask for her hand from her parents!

Mummy was saying, daddy told her " My parents is now your parents" when they got married. She told me not to take a guy's words too seriously. Yes, you may be married into his family, but he was to bear in mind that he has taken the hands of the daughter. Therefore, apart from the lady being filial to the guy's parents, the guy got to do his part to be filial to the lady's parents.

When a guy's family members got problem, it is right to expect the lady to be around to help, or to be present, as she is the daughter- in-law of the family. However, it should also be the same case if the lady's family member is in problem. Because we are in a society of equalness.

Come to think of it, Vin always asked me to go to his family's outings or dinner, giving me all sorts of MUST-GO reasons, and 90% of the time, i tried to be around, though i m just a GF of his, not a wife. Comparing to his bro's gf, i think i have been doing more den her.

I hope Vin will see this. I hope if the days come when my parents or my family's outings and dinner, you will be able to come and attend as well, and not to give me excuses or 'reasons' of not coming, like what my daddy has been doing.

Since we had been tgt, I have been having meals with his family at least 3 times a month, went genting with the family, cny visits every year, special birthday celebrations of his relatives, appearing at his hse at least once a week, going to his dad's factory during school holidays, visit his relatives when they are admitted to hospitals ... etc... I think, i have done more than a girlfriend has done, or probably, like what a wife should have done, just dat i dont cook.

He is going to thailand this Thursday! Sad! I am going for recee for my bdae bbq alone this weekend. No choice!